Kula Vilakku

Idhu oru Pennin Kadhai !
Oru pennnukku, endha alavu poruppum, narGunangalum irukkum enbadharkku
eduthukkaattu thaan, indha katturai. Idhu verum Kadhai alla, Unmai !

Podhuvaaga, pasanga (Bachelors) irukkara veedu, namma ooru sandhaila mazhai paenjhaa
eppadi kasa kasa nu irukkumo, andha maadhiri thaan irukkum.Naanga mattum vidhi vilakku alla. Adhae maadhiri thaan poattu iruppoam - enga KulaVilakku mattum illainaa !

KulaVilakku'nu sonna udanae, yaaro nu nenaichukkaadheenga. Enga veettai sutham seyyum
panippenn thaan. Andha pennoada peyar ennavo vaera dhaan. Aaana, avanga vaelaya paarthu
thaan, naanga "KulaVilakku" nu peyar vechoam.

Kulavilakkin gunangal, engal anaivarayum avvappoadhu aachariyathil aazhthum.
- Vaangara sambalathai vida, oru padi maelaagavae vaelai seyyvaal.
- "ProActiveness" nu inga industry la adikkadi Management solluvaangalla, adhu rombavae
adhigam.
- Romba naal, oru shirt, hanger'la maati irundhaa, adhai eduthu thaanagavae thuvaippaal.
- ThalaiAnai urai, madham oru murai, salavaikku poividum.
- adhu poalavae, poarvaigal.
- Kaai karigal vaangi vaiththaal, sariyaaga eduthu thattugalil poattu vaippaal.
- Enga irundhaavadhu dappaakkalai pudhichittu vandhu, enga arisi paruppu'galai pakkuvamaa
padhappaduthi veyppaal.
- Edhaavadhu unavu pandangal kaagidha cover'galil irundhaal, adhu, maru naal, oru nalla dappaakkul sendru vidum.
- Veliyil irundhu vaangi vandha unavu pettagangalai, azhagaaga "re-use" seyvaal.
- Dhinandhoarum varuvadhaal, ovvoru naal, vaelai ondrum irukkaadhu. Oru "guilty" feeling'il,
engalukku andha annaikku samaithu koduthu vittu poavaal.
- Ellaavattrirkum mael, naanga edhaavadhu (thovaikkara soap maadhiri) sariyaa vaangi
vekkalainaa, engalukku nalla thittum ulugum.
- Ovvoru pandigaikkum, engalukku edhaavadhu Palagaarangal vandhuvidum. (Naanga, innum oru murai kooda vaangi thandhadhillai).
- Mukkiyamaana onnu: Naanga sambalathai kooti koduthaa kooda, "Naan seyyara vaelaikku, idhu poadhum, adhugam thara vaendaam", enbaal.

Ippo sollunga, iththagaya gunam, vaera yaarukku varum.
Seyyum vaelayil Sutham !
Paesum paechil Vaaimai !
Ozhukkam !
Nan-nerigal !
Paasam !Panbu ! ...
... innum solli kondae poagalaam.

Anaivarum KulaVilakkugalaaga thigazhndhaal, varudathil indha naal mattum alla, ellaa naalum sirappaaga amaiyum.

En kaelvikku enna badhil ?

"Change is the Only Constant thing" nu solluvaargal.

Aanaal, sila samayangalil, en manam yaeno, adharkku udan bada marukkiradhu.

Namadhu indha "SuperFast" vaazhkayil, manidhargal kaalaththir'ku yaerpa maarikkolgiraargal.
Ennayum maattra muyalgiraargal.
Yaeno, en manam, Thonmayayum, puraadhanaththayum thaedi selgiradhu.
Ennaal, indha pagattaana vaazhkkayai yaetru kolla mudiyavillai.
Udhaaranathirku:
Pazhangaalathu kovilgal thaan pudikkindrana, Marble/Granite poatta kovilgal manadhai eeerppadhillai !
Vaetti anindhu kollaththaan aasai .. aanaal, aluvalagathirku vaettiyudan poaga thayakkam !
Raja thoattram alikkum Periya Meesai vaithukkolla aasai.. aanaal, Software Engineer'ku adhu porutham illai endru samoogam koorugiradhu !
Midhivandiyil aluvalagam sendraal, makkal yaelanamaaga paarkkindranar ! (Aanal Europeans paaraattugindranar)
Saami kumbittuvittu, neththiyil periya pattai adithaal, yevandaa ivan endru solgiraargal !
Namma ooru Kounder paechu paesaradhai vida, "Style"la naalu englipeech paesinaa thaan, madhikkiraargal !
Kuzhandhaigal, periyavangalai "Vaadaa", "Poaadaa" endraal, rasikkiraargal !
(Kanavan manaivikkullum appadiththaan :-)
Pala kadan aanaalum paravaayillai, car'la poi iranginaathaan gavuravamaam !
Panam niraya sambaathiththaal, (vettiyaa) poali gavuravam kaatta vaendum engindranar !
Arranged marriage thaan pannanumnu oru koottam;
Mixed marriage seidhu jaadhigalai udaithu eri endru solla mattroru koottam;
Engal oor, engal makkal, engal saaadhi sanam, enga ThamizhNadu, enga Bhaaratham, enga ulagam, endru sollavum oru koottam (ennai poandru);
Yaadhum oorae, yaavarum maithunargalae, endru sollikkollum koottam;
Ivvaaru, manidhanin ennangal ivvaalavu vaerubattirukkiradhey, enna seyya ?
Enakku, graamathila, dhaavani poatta ponna paathu thaan kalyanam pannikkuvaen'nu sonnaa,
inga Town Sudidhaargal, engala paarthaa ponnu maadhiri theriyalayaa nu sandai !
Innum sollikkondae poagalaam ...!

Aaaga, en manam piththu pudithu vittadhu poala oru ennam.
Indha Nagara ('naraga'nu kooda sollalaam) vaazhkkayai vittittu, ooru pakkam poyiralaam na..maasa sambalam poayirumae !
Veettu soozhnilayai samaalippadhu eppadi ?

Iraivaa, en kuzhappangalukkum, kaelvigalukkum enna dhaan bathil ?